Tuesday, June 21, 2005

"Cocksucking 101"

J recently issued a challenge...

So…I want to throw down a challenge…I want the BEST blowjob/hand job by any of you. As you know from my blog, I love to face fuck and get my cock worshipped. And have REALLY been getting into showing off my cock. So. I want any of you to post and tell me why you are such a good cocksucker.

And since I never could resist a challenge...

Of course, I've never been any good at conforming to rules so, instead of describing my best blowjob, I've decided to impart my knowledge on all of you lovely people.

Welcome to 'Cocksucking 101'.

Sit back, relax, enjoy the show and by all means, feel free to participate.

I love cock and since (sadly) I don't have one, everything -- texture, weight, feel, smell, taste -- about that glorious creature fascinates me. There are times when I'm eye level with A's cock and I just want to lean forward and sink my teeth into all that hot, hard, smooth flesh (not a good idea, by the way, a little nibbling maybe but no biting). I don't know why but there's just something so elemental about taking a cock into my mouth and feasting on all that delicious flesh.


Let's begin, shall we?

Soft or hard? It doesn't matter, wrapping your lips around a soft cock and feeling it come to life in your mouth is extremely sexy. Try it, you'll like it.

And once you've got it where you want it, start slow... teasing nibbles, feathery kisses, delicate licks, breathy whispers, soft hums. Don't be afraid to play, the receiver of all that playfulness will thank you (trust me).

Work your way up to more aggressive licks... try flattening your tongue and dragging it up, from base to tip, stopping briefly to circle the head (or glans, if you want to be proper) with the very tip of your tongue before moving back down. Lots of tongue is always a good thing.

And don't ignore his balls. Some guys don't like their balls touched or licked during oral sex but most do. Be gentle with them but make sure they get some attention too... gentle sucking, soft caressing, light rubbing ... cup them in your palm and massage them delicately, run your tongue lightly over them, take them into your mouth and suck softly. All good things.

Now comes the sucking part (Mmm)... wrap your lips around the head (and remember plenty of suction is a key ingredient here) -- watch the teeth (they're no fun or so I've been told) -- and slide on down, taking him as deep as you can before sliding your mouth back up the length of his cock. Now, I'm a hand and mouth girl. I rarely suck cock without wrapping my hand around the base. There are a couple reasons for that... #1. I can control how deep I take his cock into my mouth AND #2. A little stroking while your lips and tongue focus on the head is always nice. And if you're in a position where both hands are free, then use your other hand to stimulate his balls (or other areas... his perineum, his ass, his thighs, his chest) while you're sucking and stroking his cock.

Now comes the rough part. When the fuck is he going to cum? Your lips are numb, your jaws are sore, your hand is cramped and you have a kink in your neck that you'll probably be feeling for days and he still hasn't cum. What's with that? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but some guys just don't cum during oral, it's a pity and all but that's the breaks. All that fretting and un-needed pain isn't necessary. Don't worry about it. Making him cum shouldn't be the main focus, there are other ways to achieve that. Just enjoy him... his taste... his feel... his smell... Showing him that you appreciate, adore and love his cock is more than enough. I swear. I wouldn't steer you wrong.

Now go on... practice, practice, practice (and let me know how it cums out -- sorry, couldn't help myself).


Posted by SD at 1:10 PM


  1. Blogger Jeff posted at 2:17 PM, June 21, 2005  
    You win...


    Ah Psyche... so hot... so delicious!!
  2. Blogger rodtalks posted at 7:11 PM, June 21, 2005  
    very nice, but I'm surprised to hear about guys that don't cum from oral sex. That's very hard to believe...... do you have experience with this, because I've never know one.
  3. Blogger SD posted at 9:01 PM, June 21, 2005  
    [jx]... Thank you... and just what do I win, my love?

    Rod... Thank you... I'm fairly certain that I could make any man cum performing oral sex but with some men it's not an easy feat so there are times that moving onto other forms of sexual pleasure to bring him to orgasm is more enjoyable for all involved.
  4. Blogger Jeff posted at 9:48 AM, June 22, 2005  
    Whatever your heart desires my sweet!
  5. Blogger SD posted at 4:26 PM, June 22, 2005  
    [jx]... Hmm, now I'm going to have to give that some serious thought (very, very serious) ;)
  6. Anonymous Layne posted at 10:58 PM, June 22, 2005  
    Mmmmm oral is so fun. When a man's legs quake and his fingers convulse against your scalp the rush of power easily makes up for the neck cricks and numb lips.

    I know that uncontrolled teeth can be a huge downer, but I've known of men who do enjoy a masterfully handled nip or two along the glans. Great advice post SD!
  7. Blogger Evil Minx posted at 3:55 AM, June 23, 2005  
    Excellent post, SD - couldn't have put it better myself.

    Btw, Layne has a point - a bite or two on the shaft during oral drives *certain people* wild with desire. Which is only ever good...

  8. Anonymous Paul posted at 9:04 AM, June 23, 2005  
    Hot advice!

    One thing though - for me, teeth are GREAT. I didn't know this until my lady tried - she says "go gentle at first and pay attention to reactions - he may not know he likes it!"
  9. Blogger 81 Vaginas posted at 11:35 AM, June 23, 2005  
    as far as i'm concerned, you win...
  10. Blogger SD posted at 11:48 AM, June 25, 2005  
    layne... Thank you and yes, I have to agree with you, oral is most definitely fun. I've been with a guy (or 2) that enjoyed a bit of teeth but for the most part, it's been a "watch the teeth" sort of thing.

    EM... Thank you baby... xoxoxoxo

    Paul... Thank you :) Okay, it's looking like I'm going to have to use some teeth the next time my mouth pay's A's cock a visit ;)

    81 v's... Why thank you sweetheart, you made me blush!
  11. Blogger j posted at 11:26 PM, July 05, 2005  
    and yeah...you DO win salacious.

    let me know what you want.

    i am thinking of sending you a pic of me cumming as i read your post.

    but you let me know what you would like.
  12. Blogger SD posted at 7:48 AM, July 06, 2005  
    j... now that's an interesting offer... hmmm...

    Is this a private show or do I get bragging rights? I'm a sharer, you know ;)
  13. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 12:49 PM, December 10, 2005  
    I don't care what men say, I love to have teeth slide up and down my cock. Since I'm circumcised and have a mushroom head, having teeth swirl and massage my head feels soooo good. I love it when my girl uses her teeth on my shaft, she says she can feel the veins pulsate as she goes up and down. How could you not like that awesome feeling?
  14. Anonymous hardup posted at 8:05 AM, December 01, 2007  
    I am sorry to say I am one of those who has a hard time cumming from oral. Twice my entire life. It is the best cum of my life but hard to achieve.
  15. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 10:21 AM, December 30, 2008  
    OK SD. I lost it reading your description. Any man with you is a very lucky man indeed. But one questin. What do you think about wearing lipstick when you are performing fellatio. Is there a difference to the man, does it make it better (or worse for you)? Is it the texture of the lips or the visual site of beautiful lips wrapped around a shaft?
  16. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 12:40 PM, May 27, 2009  
    I agree with Jeff - YOU WIN! That is exactly how it should be done.

    Now, if you could teach me how to introduce my wife to your posting without pissing her off.
  17. Blogger Jill posted at 10:26 AM, October 29, 2009  
    I love the taste of a man, tell him to not eat fish or beef a few days before he expects a good oral lashing of his male member. I'm a swallower and do enjhoy when my mouth is full of penis and sperm. I've been practicing deep throat, I think it sends a message that you truly enjoy having his penis in your mouth.
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  19. Anonymous Barry posted at 9:59 PM, December 20, 2011  
    I love your ideas as you've described. Sucking cock is my favorite activity and I love to do it whenever I can.

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