Monday, November 28, 2005


Have you ever wanted something or someone that, for one reason or another, you just can’t have? I have. I do.

And if I were so bold, I might tell him that…

The mere thought of you makes me burn. And when I close my eyes, I see you… tangled limbs and glistening flesh …with me. I want you and this want is like a fire that refuses to die.

I ache to touch you, to taste you, all of you, every divine inch. For you to touch me, to taste me, all of me.

I would, without shame, surrender myself to you for an hour, a day, a week just to know what it feels like to have your hands on me.

Would you take me?

Though I’m fairly sure he already knows.

Posted by SD at 9:52 AM 8 comments

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Baby steps...

I've discovered that taking a dive into the world of exhibitionism is not something I can do head first. A toe at a time or baby steps, if you will...

Now you...

Posted by SD at 10:43 AM 9 comments

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Well, would you?

I've always been a bit of a voyeur, it's exhibitionism, while a lovely thing, that's never really been my forte, but I'm reconsidering my stance on that. Which brings me to the point of this post...

If I showed you mine, would you show me yours?

Posted by SD at 1:07 PM 15 comments

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Compliments of...

Us. And since I can never think of anyone to tag for these things, I'll just leave it open to whomever wishes to do it. Enjoy.

Why did you start blogging?

Honestly? As a form of marriage counseling (or therapy for lovers, if you will). Out of all of the problems in my marriage, sex was one of the most bitter so I started this blog in an effort to try and repair, improve and expand our sex lives without actually having to physically go to marriage counseling. Confused? Well, basically, I took our sexual experiences and wrote them out, occasionally adding something(s) that I felt was missing or lacking and then I'd let him read what I'd written to let him see how I felt about it. Unfortunately, it didn't work because sex was only one in a legion of problems and improving that did nothing for the rest.

Have you ever wanted to meet a blogger in person?

Mmm, yes, there is this one that I would absolutely love to meet.

Have you ever met a blogger in person?

No, I haven't.

Have you ever spoken to one on the phone?

No, haven't done that either. I've talked to a bloggers voice mail but not the actual blogger. And a blogger has talked to my answering machine but not actually me. But hopefully someday I'll get to talk to a real live blogger. Who knows?

Do you have more than one blog?

Yes, I have this one and I also have a personal blog that isn't exactly G rated but it's certainly not NC17.

Where do your ideas for posts come from?

Up there underneath the title, it reads... That surreal place between fantasy and reality ...and that's precisely it. Some of what I write is reality taken from the sexual experiences I share(d) with my partner and some is merely fantasy -- images, dreams, desires, needs -- that I long to make reality.

Have you ever fallen for another blogger?

Fallen for? Yes.

How many blogs do you read?

I read a whole myraid of blogs (if I've linked to your blog, I read your blog) but honestly, there are only a handful that I read religiously (as in daily).

What do you like to read in a blog?

If it captivates or stimulates me, whether it be mentally or physically, in any way, I'll read it.

Are there blogs you shy away from?

I'm pretty liberal in what I read but any blog (or site) involving nonconsensual sex and/or sexual activity involving minors isn't something I want anything to do with. Aside from those, not particularly.

Why do you keep writing?

I haven't been writing all that much lately because the current state of my sexual life isn't conducive to anything worth reading but when I get back on the proverbial horse, I'll do it because writing, for me, is therapeutic, it's a passion, it's something that I love do and something I simply can't fathom not doing.

Posted by SD at 6:46 AM 4 comments

Friday, November 11, 2005


Seeing as the phrase "Cocksucking 101" still garners numerous search engines hits on the daily, I figured I'd go ahead and reincarnate it for your viewing pleasure. But first, I have a question...

Are there really people out there legitimately looking for a class on cocksucking?

Enquiring minds (mainly mine) want to know.

One of these days, I'll write something new and maybe, just maybe we'll hold that class on cocksucking that was requested from a few of you lovely people but in the mean time, let's revisit an oldie but apparently goodie...

J recently issued a challenge...

So…I want to throw down a challenge…I want the BEST blowjob/hand job by any of you. As you know from my blog, I love to face fuck and get my cock worshipped. And have REALLY been getting into showing off my cock. So. I want any of you to post and tell me why you are such a good cocksucker.

And since I never could resist a challenge...

Of course, I've never been any good at conforming to rules so, instead of describing my best blowjob, I've decided to impart my knowledge on all of you lovely people.

Welcome to 'Cocksucking 101'.

Sit back, relax, enjoy the show and by all means, feel free to participate.

I love cock and since (sadly) I don't have one, everything -- texture, weight, feel, smell, taste -- about that glorious creature fascinates me. There are times when I'm eye level with A's cock and I just want to lean forward and sink my teeth into all that hot, hard, smooth flesh (not a good idea, by the way, a little nibbling maybe but no biting). I don't know why but there's just something so elemental about taking a cock into my mouth and feasting on all that delicious flesh.Yum.

Let's begin, shall we?

Soft or hard? It doesn't matter, wrapping your lips around a soft cock and feeling it come to life in your mouth is extremely sexy. Try it, you'll like it.

And once you've got it where you want it, start slow... teasing nibbles, feathery kisses, delicate licks, breathy whispers, soft hums. Don't be afraid to play, the receiver of all that playfulness will thank you (trust me).Work your way up to more aggressive licks... try flattening your tongue and dragging it up, from base to tip, stopping briefly to circle the head (or glans, if you want to be proper) with the very tip of your tongue before moving back down. Lots of tongue is always a good thing.And don't ignore his balls. Some guys don't like their balls touched or licked during oral sex but most do. Be gentle with them but make sure they get some attention too... gentle sucking, soft caressing, light rubbing ... cup them in your palm and massage them delicately, run your tongue lightly over them, take them into your mouth and suck softly. All good things.

Now comes the sucking part (Mmm)... wrap your lips around the head (and remember plenty of suction is a key ingredient here) -- watch the teeth (they're no fun or so I've been told) -- and slide on down, taking him as deep as you can before sliding your mouth back up the length of his cock. Now, I'm a hand and mouth girl. I rarely suck cock without wrapping my hand around the base. There are a couple reasons for that... #1. I can control how deep I take his cock into my mouth AND #2. A little stroking while your lips and tongue focus on the head is always nice. And if you're in a position where both hands are free, then use your other hand to stimulate his balls (or other areas... his perineum, his ass, his thighs, his chest) while you're sucking and stroking his cock.

Now comes the rough part. When the fuck is he going to cum? Your lips are numb, your jaws are sore, your hand is cramped and you have a kink in your neck that you'll probably be feeling for days and he still hasn't cum. What's with that? Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but some guys just don't cum during oral, it's a pity and all but that's the breaks. All that fretting and un-needed pain isn't necessary. Don't worry about it. Making him cum shouldn't be the main focus, there are other ways to achieve that. Just enjoy him... his taste... his feel... his smell... Showing him that you appreciate, adore and love his cock is more than enough. I swear. I wouldn't steer you wrong.

Now go on... practice, practice, practice (and let me know how it cums out -- sorry, couldn't help myself).


Posted by SD at 12:46 PM 7 comments

Thursday, November 10, 2005

The Word For Today Is: Simplicity.

Written for somone I long to touch, it's short and to the point. All hail simplicity.

Lips locking, tongues tangling, fingers lacing, sweat beading, bodies merging.

That is what I want, what I need, from you.

Among other things…

Posted by SD at 11:27 AM 1 comments

Thursday, November 03, 2005

Not gone...

Just processing, reflecting and working to get life back where it needs to be.

I'll be back.

Posted by SD at 12:23 PM 3 comments